Who knows how to define the word friendship, what's measured?, maybe as long as it lasts, is this an indicator of the quality of it ... Well do not know, pero hoy he llegado a la conclusión que por mucho que dure no significa que sea de verdad ni de buena calidad.
Creo que no se debe intentar cambiar a las personas, cada uno es como es y hace su propia evolución, uno decide libremente si quiere o no estar al lado de esa persona y compartir camino, pero intentar castrar no es precisamente una actitud positiva ni sana. Que fácil es acusar a las personas, hablar gratuitamente en nombre de la amistad y hacer daño con ello.
A veces, en nombre de la amistad uno se otorga el derecho a juzgar a los demás o de echar en cara cosas que ellos no son capaces de cumplir. A veces in the name of friendship is abused would ask no favors to anyone that it was not, sometimes in the name of friendship ...
All these experiences about themselves, other outsiders, have made me discover that nothing in life is eternal, and there are always doors are closed and others open, some are between open, finally re-opened or closed permanently.
But one thing I have very clear, loves to force anyone, and who does not love you as you are, you better not love you, to tell you he loves you but you should change this and that, not friendship, that are conditions, and it is good to have conditions in life ....
for you, now you're sad and disappointed, do not worry because many people and I know how you and so we will not ever change ...
Tara